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Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:09:15

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well.. she broke up with me, there was a lot of stress going on in her life and she broke up with me, we were going out since november and it feels like someone just swung and axe into my heartm do any of you know how to ease the pain?

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:12:03

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Find another?

Edit: I'm sorry, that didn't sound very nice.......The best way to forget about her is to find another special someone though.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:12:23

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I'll sell Kevers your way to make sure you have the support you need to get through this tough time.

Sorry to hear

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:13:10

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mary jane is always comforting. but seriously, Ive been there done that, had a girl rip my heart out, its not gonna be easy, but messing around with as many girls as possible seemed to help out

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:13:39

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I come with a coupon for 2 free hugs.

sorry to here that man, time heals all.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:15:17

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thanks, *sigh* when she told me i threw up, i have never felt that way before, never in my life

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:17:53

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I suggest crackin' one (or many) open and settle down for a few hours with your favourite game on your favourite console. The last time something similar happened to me I couldn't stand being with anyone...I needed some alone time.

But everyone handles it a different way. Sorry for your loss and I hope you find your way.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:18:07

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thanks, *sigh* when she told me i threw up, i have never felt that way before, never in my life

down a couple shots of fireball, surf some porn, play games....try to find somthing to keep yourself from dewlling. Obviously your gonna think about it alot, but try to break it up a bit so it dosen't become too overwhelming.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:19:01

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well.. she broke up with me, there was a lot of stress going on in her life and she broke up with me, we were going out since november and it feels like someone just swung and axe into my heartm do any of you know how to ease the pain?

well, the short term is to replace with a few girls, just to take your mind off of it, and NO PORN!!! You'll just end up thinking about her more. Honestly, I find the easiest way to forget about one girl is to find another to talk to, not necessarily for a relationship, just to keep your mind clear from the other one. Try not to be lonely for too long either, that also makes things worse, go out and hang out with some friends.

Stay away from theme parks too, i noticed that it makes you feel worse b/c you see all those ppl there with their significant other, i never go to a theme park with all guys, gotta always have some chick to hang on, even if its just a really close female friend.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:20:27

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omg you know I did last time relationship trouble popped up, I played GH3, seriously it lets you think about it, while preforming better in GH

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:21:44

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pr0n, alcohol, video games, and the dark knight coming out NEXT WEEK(

) will ease your pain

Edit: ksmooches says no pr0n... its probally for the best

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:22:42

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AuToFiRE

well.. she broke up with me, there was a lot of stress going on in her life and she broke up with me, we were going out since november and it feels like someone just swung and axe into my heartm do any of you know how to ease the pain?

My advice is not to shut yourself out. Reach out to as many people as you can and try to occupy yourself with as much activity as possible so as to keep your mind busy. Don't beat yourself over it and make sure you ALWAYS see it as her loss.

Bangin random chics doesn't really help at least not in my experience but if you find some other girl thats decent enough to talk to, it is very effective at taking your mind off her.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:22:52

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quote:

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quote:

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well.. she broke up with me, there was a lot of stress going on in her life and she broke up with me, we were going out since november and it feels like someone just swung and axe into my heartm do any of you know how to ease the pain?

well, the short term is to replace with a few girls, just to take your mind off of it, and NO PORN!!! You'll just end up thinking about her more. Honestly, I find the easiest way to forget about one girl is to find another to talk to, not necessarily for a relationship, just to keep your mind clear from the other one. Try not to be lonely for too long either, that also makes things worse, go out and hang out with some friends.

Stay away from theme parks too, i noticed that it makes you feel worse b/c you see all those ppl there with their significant other, i never go to a theme park with all guys, gotta always have some chick to hang on, even if its just a really close female friend.

seriously?? I NEVER think about my girl when I'm watching some chick get gangbanged, lol

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:28:29

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First and foremost, take a pillow or something, and just yell into it (or sob, if you need to)..
Get the initial feelings out of the way, so you can begin to feel better soon.

And sorry to hear that, dude. But think of it this way, at least you're done with her before all the stress in her life turned her into a psycho. Not sure if that helps =\

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:29:10

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Just drink yourself into a stupour. I'm sure there's a better way, but I don't know of one.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:33:46

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I know in all seriousness I shut myself way for a couple od days and drowned myself in music and sleep. Your going to need to think this through so take the time you need

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:43:47

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Just drink yourself into a stupour. I'm sure there's a better way, but I don't know of one.

you would go there...DONT DO THAT...drink kool-aid, and get some colored folks to make it for you. If made right, kool-aid can give you this false sense of happyness, extreme happyness.

And go out somewhere, keep yourself occupied, go stay at a friends house for a week...the friend with all the cool stuff at their house, and the pool. If they got a hot sister, that's good too, as long as she's single. If you think you are attracted to someone else, you might forget about your own easier, especially if you have access to that person, like a friends sister.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:46:03

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quote:

you would go there...DONT DO THAT...drink kool-aid, and get some colored folks to make it for you. If made right, kool-aid can give you this false sense of happyness, extreme happyness.

Is the secret loads of sugar?

Lol and I like your idea smooches, go for someones sister.

Anyways dude, im sorry about your loss.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:47:29

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well.. she broke up with me, there was a lot of stress going on in her life and she broke up with me, we were going out since november and it feels like someone just swung and axe into my heartm do any of you know how to ease the pain?

Go form yourself a bromance. Then find a woman. But keep the bromance on the d-l with your new woman.

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RE: Just broke up with my girlfriend - Jul.-11th-2008 14:49:23

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First... Im a woman and Ive been in your situation, you may not want my feed back but give it a try. You may think this sounds corny but the only thing that can make you feel better if you believe is god and if you dont believe you will once you take my advice. Pray and let him know you want the pain to go away, meanwhile try finding female friends not fuck partners because your gonna compare there sex to hers and when your in love your exs sex is gonna be better anyways so once you have female friends they will keep you occupied and take some of the stress from your break up on hold, eventually you will find a chic you really like and maybe you wont fall in the same trap you did with your prior relationship.

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