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ORIGINAL: DarkSniper

By you going back and telling what that person said, you're considered a snitch in my opinion.  To find an opinion with the sole intent of telling your lady friend what he was thinking is quite wrong and shows that you have a malicious intent for the advantage of your personal being.  If he really doesnt want to be with your friend, you should let the situation play out because in the end, those two will be breaking up if one is not happy.


Now as far as your friendship with the lady friend, my best advice to you is to find another female to occupy your time.  If she does have any sort of feelings for you, it will show once you devote your attention towards someone else.  Once you make it obvious that you've already been pre-selected by another woman, her true feelings will show and you will get your answer.


Dr. $niper

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ORIGINAL: Jdash24

Ok, so the girl I love is dating another guy. And today, while talking to this guy (he doesn't know I love her) I managed to get some info from him where he said he "loved" her and this other girl. I asked him if he had to choose what would he do, and he said he would choose this other girl.

Well I told the girl I love that, and now she is very upset with him. Now that guy is in a really bad light to her, and I'm in a good light, being kind, honest, and helpful for her, because she wanted me to find this stuff out.

Should I continue to try and put him in bad light, and make myself look great. Or just not try and push the envelope and let things take their course, just hoping she'll break up with him.

Any advice is much appreciated.